The Call Is the First Session
A guide for answering inquiries about our retreats, ceremonies, and day packages. Know it, then put it down.
Before You Pick Up · The Tone
The person calling is almost always in a tender place. Depression, grief, burnout, a relationship ending, a parent dying, addiction, trauma, a crisis of meaning. They've been thinking about making this call for weeks.
The way you answer the phone matters more than the words you say.
Four rules, in order
- Slow down. Speak at about 70% of your normal pace. Let sentences land. A calm voice regulates their nervous system before the conversation even starts.
- Leave space. After you ask a question, count to three before you say anything else. Silence is not awkward — it is the container. Most callers will fill it with the real reason they're calling if you let them.
- Match, then lead. Start at their energy, then gently bring it down. If they're frantic, don't match frantic — acknowledge it warmly, then soften your pace and they'll follow.
- Authentically SEE and acknowledge them. Whatever they share, receive it. A simple reflection — "that sounds heavy," "I hear you," "thank you for trusting me with that" — tells them they are not just a caller. They are a person, and you are with them.
Never
- Never interrupt. Even when you know where the sentence is going.
- Never use sales words: "awesome," "perfect," "absolutely," "no worries," "boom," "100%." They break the spell.
- Never laugh at something that isn't funny to fill space.
- Never read the script.
Breath check: before you pick up, take one slow breath in, one slow breath out. Your body is the instrument.
The Opening
Warm, unhurried. Smile gently — they can hear it.
pause · let them talk · don't rush to answer
If they're hesitant or apologetic — "sorry, I don't even know why I'm calling" — say:
Discovery · Listen Before You Offer
Ask gently. One question, then silence. Don't stack questions.
- What's been going on in your life that brought you to pick up the phone today?
- After they answer — Thank you for sharing that with me.This line, said simply, matters more than you think.
- Have you done any ketamine or psychedelic work before?
- Are you currently working with a therapist or a coach?
- When you imagine coming here — are you picturing a single visit to see what this is like, or something longer, where you step out of your life for a few days and stay on the land?
- And are you thinking of doing this on your own, or with a partner or a friend?
- Is there anything medically I should be aware of — heart, blood pressure, medications, pregnancy?
- What's your timeline like? Are you looking for support in the next few weeks, or sometime in the next month or two?
If they cry, don't rush past it. Say: "Take your time. I'm right here."
Match Them to One Path
Lead with the single best fit. If they ask for options, offer a second. Never list all six at once — it's overwhelming and it breaks the softness.
A lead-in before you describe a program
Before sharing details of a package, give them a soft bridge. Don't dive straight into ceremonies and pricing — acknowledge what they've shared first, then offer the program as something shaped for them.
Other variations: "I'd love to share something with you that feels like a fit…" · "From what I'm hearing, there's one program in particular I'd want you to know about…"
"Leave the world behind. Come back changed."
When someone needs to step out of their life — not just fit a session into their week — guide them here first.
For people staying local.
What Makes Us Different
When they ask "what makes you different from [other clinic]" — say this, slowly.
then pause · let it land · don't fill the silence
Handling Tender Moments
Said softly. Always.
| They say | You say |
|---|---|
| (crying) | Take your time. There's no hurry here. |
| "That's more than I can afford." | I hear that. Can I ask — do you want me to tell you what might fit, or would it be more helpful if I sent you a few options by email and you sit with them? |
| "Is ketamine safe?" | That's a good question to ask. It's FDA-approved, we screen medically before anyone starts, and a clinician is present for every session. Fifteen hundred sessions, perfect safety record. I'll send you our medical intake so you can review it with your own doctor. |
| "I'm scared." | Of course you are. Most people who call us are a little scared. That's usually a sign that something real is ready to move. You don't have to decide anything today. |
| "I need to talk to my partner / therapist." | Please do. I'll send you a one-pager you can share with them. And if they have questions, I'm happy to be on a call with both of you. |
| "I just want to stay at the ranch, not do a program." | You can. Nightly lodging in the retreat house is 349 for a private room or 239 for a shared bed. Within Center clients get ten percent off. |
| "Can I bring my partner / friend?" | Yes. The six-day retreat can be shared or private rooms, and we also hold Journey for Two if you want to do a shared ceremony with individual integration. |
The Close · Send the Intake Forms
Every path ends the same way: intake forms. That's the one clear next step. Everything else is optional.
pause · let them sit with it
Framing the intake — so it doesn't feel like homework
The caller is often in a tender state. "Paperwork" lands badly. Reframe it.
- Not "fill out these forms"
- Instead "share a little of your story with our clinical team so they can hold you well"
Three versions of the close · matched to warmth
Hold the spot · soft urgency, not pressure
If the retreat they want has limited dates (especially 6-day immersions), say this after they've agreed to the intake:
If they hesitate about the intake itself
| They say | You say |
|---|---|
| "Can't I just book?" | I wish I could — our clinical team requires the intake before any ceremony. It's what keeps everyone safe. It really is short. |
| "What if I don't qualify?" | That happens sometimes. If it's not the right fit medically, our clinician will get on a call with you, explain why, and help you find what is. You won't be left hanging. |
| "Is my information private?" | Completely. It's stored in our medical system, only our clinicians see it, and we never share it. |
| "I don't have time right now." | Totally understandable. I'll send it — just open it when you have a quiet twenty minutes. Tea, no phone. It's actually a nice way to start the process. |
Close every call with this
wait · this often surfaces the real reason they called
End with gratitude
Whatever they decide, send them off held. Always end with thanks.
After You Hang Up
The warmth of the call is a small window. Move with it.
- Within 10 minutes send the intake forms plus a short personal email. Use their name. Reference one thing they shared — "I'm glad you reached out today — it sounds like this past year has been a lot." Attach or link the retreat overview.
- Soft-hold the dates or package in the CRM, with a 7-day expiration.
- CRM note in their own words — what they said, not what you interpreted. Example: "running on fumes, mom passed in Feb, husband supportive, leaning 6-day private room, sent intake 2:14pm."
- Follow up at 48 hours if the intake hasn't been returned. Don't pressure — say: "Just checking in — wanted to make sure the intake landed in your inbox and didn't end up in spam. No rush on sending it back. I'm here when you're ready."
- When the intake returns hand off to the clinical team the same day and email the caller to confirm receipt and what happens next.
You are often the first human voice someone hears after weeks of pain. The call is not a sale. The call is the first session.